Film - Dil Dhadakne Do (2015)
Director - Zoya Akhtar
Scene - The Butter Knife Scene (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K0rsRJXftPk)
Why a ship? As mentioned by Zoya in an interview, the ship sets the tone for the entire film as it brings about the feeling of being trapped. The Mehras have nowhere to go now, the flawless facade won't serve as an escape for long.
The 'butter knife' scene barely lasts for three minutes, still managing to take you on an emotional rollercoaster. However, the scene wouldn't have been as impactful if not for the previous meeting between the two families.
1. The nature of conversation. Manav's mother, Smita, speaks to Ayesha in a concerned, respectful way, trying to understand why their relationship has deteriorated. Mindful that she is confronting Ayesha in front of her entire family on a cruise trip sponsored by her own parents, she puts Ayesha's interests before her own son's. However, Ayesha's own family humiliates her and warns her that they won't let a divorce taint their reputation.
2. The character blocking. Blocking is the positioning and movements of characters, used to tell the story in visual terms. The placement of characters in this scene is crucial. Ayesha sits alone, facing every other member in the room. The other members, facing her, almost seem like they are attacking her. It's clear that Ayesha has no support in this scene.
1. The nature of conversation. By now, Smita has realised that Ayesha has no support from her family regarding the divorce. Owing to this, she takes the liberty of raising her voice and openly disrespecting Ayesha's decision. If it weren't for the events that preceded this scene, Smita's aggressive tone would seem overly dramatic and confuse the audience.
2. The character blocking. Ayesha now sits with her family, but is still at a distance from her mother. Kabir is now a more active part of the conversation.
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Once more, context plays a key role. The only real relationships we have seen these characters share are that of Ayesha and Kabir, Kamal and his brother, and debatably, Neelam and Kabir. For the first time in the entire film, we see all four of these characters express heartfelt affection towards each other. Zoya finally gives us what we've been longing for.
Delightfully portrayed, we finally get the answer to our Why. From the start, we are left rooting for the family to drop the facade and connect with each other on a deeper level. This moment justifies our need, as we see how strong the family can be once they join forces. .
The scene would not have succeeded if not for the correct use of context and the gradual buildup. Arguably the best scene in the film, it steadily resolves most of the conflict we are faced with since we met the Mehras. In addition to Zoya Akhtar and Reema Kagti's masterful writing, the deep visuals and impeccable acting is what makes this scene successful. The clever use of multiple OTS shots (Over the shoulder shots - used to show character's perspective and emotional connect) leads to an active involvement in the flow of the scene.